Pastor Letter September 6th

Dear Parish Family,

On this Labor Day weekend, we remember all the bread winners of every family and also those who have lost their jobs during this pandemic. We thank God for the gift of work and the God given abilities to glorify Him in what we do. Our work reminds us that we co-operators with God in the process of building up His kingdom on earth.

Last week, Jesus asked the question: What does it profit a man to gain the whole world and suffer the loss of his/ her soul. This week I would like to share with you Father Richard Roher’s reflection on the true self.

The thing that we have to face is that life is as simple as this. We are living in a world that is absolutely transparent and God is shining through it all the time. This is not just a fable or a nice story, it is true. —Thomas Merton

I learned the terms “True Self” and “false self” from Thomas Merton (1915‒1968). These are words he used to clarify Jesus’ teaching of dying to self or “losing ourselves to find ourselves” (see Mark 8:35). Merton rightly recognized that it was not the body that had to “die” but the “false self” that we do not need anyway. The false self—or what I am calling lately the “separate self,” disconnected from Divine Love—is simply a substitute for our deepest truth. It is a useful and even needed part of ourselves, but it is not all of us; the danger is when we think we are only our small or separate self. Our attachment to the false self must die to allow the True Self—our basic and unchangeable identity in God—to live fully and freely.

Thomas Merton said that the True Self should not be thought of as anything different than life itself—but not my little life—the Big Life. [1] Franciscan philosopher John Duns Scotus (c. 1266‒1308) said that the human person is not different or separate from Being itself. This is not the little being that you and I get attached to and take too seriously, but Universal Being, “the One in whom we live, and move, and have our being,” as Paul put it to the Athenians (Acts 17:28). We Franciscans call this “the univocity of all being” (speaking of all beings with one consistent voice), “that all may be one” (John 17:21).

When you’ve gotten too comfortable with your separate self and you call it Life, you will get trapped at that level. You will hold onto it for dear life—because that’s the only life you think you have! Unless someone tells you about the Bigger Life, or you’ve had a conscious connection with the deepest ground of your being, there’s no way you’re going to let go of your separate self. But your attachment to that separate self must “die” or “the single grain of wheat remains just a single grain” (John 12:24).

Your True Self is Life and Being and Love. Love is what you were made for and love is who you are. When you live outside of Love, you are not living from your true Being or with full consciousness. The Song of Songs says that “Love is strong as Death. . . . The flash of it is a flash of fire, a flame of YHWH” (8:6, Jerusalem Bible). Your True Self is a little tiny flame of this Universal Reality that is Life itself, Consciousness itself, Being itself, Love itself, Light and Fire itself, God’s very self. – Father Richard Roher, OFM

Next weekend Our Lady Star of the Sea School will celebrate First Holy Communion on September 12-13. May God bless our new 3rd graders who have waited a long time for this special day. We are sad that the restrictions of our church in place limiting the number of people who can attend and yet with live streaming, family and friends can join in offering Masses with them. Please continue to pray for all our teachers and students as we return to school for the 2020 -2021 academic year.

Father Tom Devery



Pastor Letter August 31

Dear Parish Family,

As we round out the last licks of summer, we listen to the lament of Jeremiah the Prophet this Sunday. He was indeed reluctant to become the mouth- piece of God, speaking His word to the people whether they wanted to hear it or not. His famous quote, “You duped me O Lord, and I let myself be duped”. Indeed, he suffered greatly from the reaction of people to God’s message and yet he acknowledged that although he did not want to speak in God’s name anymore; he recognized the deep fire within his heart burning. This dilemma is shared by many people these days. We are tired of this hand washing, mask wearing, socially distant world. We find ourselves still anxious and frustrated with the fall out from Covid-19. And yet we strive to keep our faith in Him high and be faithful during this hard summer. When the chips are down, we can repeat what Father Basil says all the time: “God is good, all the time and all the time, God is good

Saint Paul also acknowledges the suffering and toll it takes to be faithful in difficult time. “Do not conform yourselves to this age but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that you may discern what is the will of God, what is good, and pleasing and perfect.” The key here is discernment. I believe we need to ask the Lord for wisdom and understanding to live through these days. We don’t want to go down the rabbit hole of anxiety, or lashing anger, or biting criticism of everything. It seems its so easy to react rather than respond. Prayer and trust in Jesus sharpens the saw of discernment to cut through the garbage of the news we ingest.

This Sunday’s Gospel reading is from Saint Matthew. Saint Peter answered the question correctly last Sunday to Jesus, “Who do you say I am” and now this week once again he blows it. He refuses to accept Jesus’ prediction of His passion and death. Peter exclaims, “God forbid, Lord!” How true to form we are to this attitude when we are asked to sacrifice and deal with loss and linger with suffering. Taking up our cross is extremely difficult and yet isn’t there down the line, maybe years later untold gifts in what we have endured. It’s like Steven Colbert, late night talk show host on CBS, admitting that he nearly lost his faith and his mind when his dad and two brothers were killed in an airplane crash. That tragedy broke his heart and it took a long while to grieve and deal with that loss but then he slowly began to discover all the blessings that God had given him through that experience. “Every time you open up a present, it doesn’t have to be good”. This paradox comes many times in our lives and when we embrace the cross, and take up our crosses, we discover the face of Jesus.

Many people are reevaluating what’s essential and important in their lives during this pandemic. If you lost your job, or a loved one and finances are hurting, can we trust that we will come through this bitter or better. I am encountering people coming back to the Sacrament of Penance after many years. It’s certainly a time for repentance, soul searching and finding the God of the cross and Resurrection, who never left us. What a gift we have in the merciful touch of Jesus. May I invite you to prepare for this upcoming academic year with a clean slate and renew and refresh your soul. Let the new year begin with Jesus leading the way.

Blessings and Peace,

Father Tom Devery

Pastor Letter August 23

Dear Parish Family,

We are in the home stretch before school opens and there is so much happening these days. I made a video update for our website and invite you all to review it.  I am posting the Pandemic Mass Schedule for the month of September. Weekday Masses will remain at 9AM and Saturday / Sunday Schedule will be 9AM and 11AM and 7PM. Baptisms will resume at 2PM with a maximum of 6 babies and their families.

After every Mass, Funeral, Baptism, Memorial Mass, and Wedding, we sanitize the Church. We are able to do that in about fifteen minutes. There is a jet pack sprayer that sanitizes the pews and the doors of our church.

Last week there was a meeting with all the priests on Zoom in which Cardinal Dolan and the Chancery Officials told us that we can now have a maximum of 33% attendance at Mass. During this pandemic the obligation to attend Mass on Sunday and Holydays is suspended. We do encourage you to attend if you are able. Many people have been able to tune in on our Live Stream for Mass. Every time we offer Mass we recite the prayer for Spiritual Communion and for all who are self- quarantined, or frail or feel in any way that they are compromised the graces of attending Mass and the reception of Holy Communion is available to you; even you cannot physically be present to receive. Again, thank you for your generous support to our parish during this time.

We will continue to have Shared Homilies and Updates in video on our website.

The Sacrament of Reconciliation is available every Saturday from 3:30 until 5PM. If anyone is in need of Reconciliation or the Sacrament of the Sick, they may call the rectory for an appointment. Several people have been preparing for surgery and we priests have met you in the barbecue area outside our rectory for the reception for the Anointing of the Sick. Also, we have been attending to those who are homebound.

The School and Gym is sanitized and looks like a hospital.  There are no posters, papers and with desks set six feet apart and spreading out over the gymnasiums, O’Mara Hall and the D’Amato Room, we are going to be in good shape in September. The student enrollment is up to 650 students and our teachers have been given the green light should they wish to wear scrubs. Having extra people on staff to take incoming temperatures, wipe down door handles and surfaces throughout the day is part of the regiment to keep the school squeaky clean. This all takes time, given the amount of children with blended learning and the volume of space to be cleansed each day. .

We are sad that we cannot have in classroom Religious Education classes during this pandemic. Having remote learning on line is no substitute for the faith taught and caught by our dedicated catechists. Hopefully this will only be one semester.

In his book, Who Do You That I Am, Cardinal Dolan writes about the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony.

I once met a group of young people years ago and posited this question: “Who do you think has a more exalted uplifting noble view of sex: Playboy founder Hugh Hefner or the Catholic Church?

          Everyone has a different viewpoint. But after about an hour: a consensus seemed to have developed that Hugh Hefner’s promiscuous “anything goes” mentality about sex had led to disastrous consequences, such as the objectification of women, the reduction of sex to a contact sport instead of an act of love, abortion, venereal disease, AIDS, divorce, and the disappearance of reverence, mystery and romance from sex.

          In the Bible, God compared His love for us to the passionate attraction of a young man courting a beautiful young woman, and He told us that His relationship with us is as strong, romantic, and tender as that between a husband and a wife. Saint Paul tells us that Christ loves His Church (us) just as a groom loves his bride.

          The group ended agreeing: If you want a freeing exciting, respectful, uplifting approach to sex, look to the Church and not Hugh Hefner!

          Sexual love between a man and a woman in marriage is an actual hint of the love God has for us and as such is a tremendous gift. This gift is freeing, not enslaving, selfless, not selfish, giving life, not just satisfying and urge. As with any gift, it requires care, reverence, and proper use.

          I want to honor all couples who are a Sacramental witness to the love of God in this world. Be blessed during these remaining days of summer!

Father Tom Devery

Pastor Letter August 9

Dear Parish Family,

May the Lord give you peace! On July 31st I am delighted to announce that the catechumens and candidates for the Easter Sacraments of RCIA, (The Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults) finally were administered and we welcomed 9 new Catholics fully initiated into the Catholic Church. They are Michael Dorillo, Rachel Fishman, Krystal Furiam Ruby Moczdkowski, Frank Persico, Amanda Squeo, Luke Stangarone, Amanda Willis, and Dr. Dean Jepson.

Ordinarily, they would have been welcomed at the Easter Vigil last April; but due to the COVID-19 virus quarantine it couldn’t happen. So, on last Friday evening at 7PM 2 men and 7 women along with their godparents and sponsors and family and friends joyfully participated in the Baptism, Confirmation and Holy Communion. I want to express my sincere appreciation to Joe Limeri, Agnes Zuffante, John Amodio and Carol Ordy, these parishioners are part of the year long team that helped prepare our newest Catholics for their commitment to Christ. On August 15th we will have 15 young people making the sacrament of Confirmation who have traveled a similar route. I have been given permission to Confirm and this is a great honor.

On August 15th, next Saturday, the Feast of the Assumption of Our Blessed Mother, this feast day will occur but it is not a holyday of obligation since the pandemic and the fact it falls on a Saturday all across the USA. This will be a milestone for one of our parish workers. For the last several years Katie Nicosia, while attending college worked in our parish office in the evenings and on weekends answering the door and the phone as a receptionist. This past year she entered the Carmelite Sisters of the Aged and Infirm. These are the sisters who staff Carmel Richmond Nursing Home, Ozanam Home, Queens, Saint Patrick’s Home, Bronx and Mary Manning Walsh Home in Manhattan.

She had been contemplating religious life for a long time. The Motherhouse for the Carmelite Sisters is situated in Germantown, New York. This is in Hudson County along the Hudson River.  She was the only one in her class, there were three other novices in the group before her. During this past year, she has been in formation. She did work at the motherhouse and then went on a field assignment to Saint Patrick’s Nursing Home in Framingham, Massachusetts. She loved meeting the elderly and sadly she was quarantined to her convent because many of the residents did come down with COVID -19 and some of them died. This was heart breaking, however her ministry to the elderly will involve this prayer ministry to accompany many residents right up to the moment they pass into eternal life. It has been a most unusual year for her.

Just the other day she received her name in religion. She was known in the world as Katie Nicosia, and from now on she will be called, Sister Michelle Elizabeth Marie, O. Carm.. Please keep Katie in your prayers as she accepts her habit with a white veil and begins her two- year novitiate on August 15.

In his writings, “Who do you say that I am,” Cardinal Dolan writes a reflection for August 2nd that was thought provoking.

When I was studying Church history, I took a course titled “The Church and the French Revolution,” and my professor lectured on how “secularism” began to be the new value system for the Western world. He defined secularism as our ability to get along just fine without God, our attempt to find all meaning and purpose in earthly life and to our drive to restrict faith and religion to the private, personal sphere. To the question, “Is this all there is?” secularism replies, “Yes”.

I am afraid many of us have become secularists.

A secular society celebrates Mardi Gras but not Lent, Christmas without Advent, and Halloween without All Saints Day and presumes salvation without conversion and repentance.

The syndicated columnist Cal Thomas once wrote that contemporary society is still worshipping a golden calf, just as the Israelites did at the foot of Mount Sinai. “Many prefer,” he observed “to worship things and are slaves to feelings, this dulling their senses to the wisdom of the ages.”  He wrote that everywhere there is a “rejection of what previous generations called social norms, decency, virtues, values, propriety, modesty, integrity, and standards” and that “materialism has dulled our senses to anything that does not produce pleasure.”

Secularism, idolatry, materialism in our values, our priorities, our behavior, and our speech. We Catholics don’t want to be “just like everyone else”.

The gospel challenges us to change the world, our world with His grace. In prayer he multiplies His gifts to His people, and divides fears and conquers wars.

A blessed August!

Fr. Tom Devery


Pastor Letter August 2nd

Dear Parish Family,

I received an article from the Franciscan Friars of the Renewal from their Community Leader, Father John Paul Oulette, CFR. I believe in Life Everlasting.

On March 26, Father Louis, Director of Saint Anthony’s Shelter for Renewal in the Bronx, went into self -isolation because he manifested some symptoms of Covid-19. After six weeks of coughing fits Father Louis tested negative for Covid-19, he instead has cancer. Cancer may not kill Father Louis, God willing, but it is forcing him to face his mortality.

          As Saint Francis of Assisi lay dying in a small hut built for him near the chapel of San Damiano, he wrote one of his most beautiful prayers, “The Canticle of the Creatures’’. Soon afterwards, he asked to be taken to the Portiuncla (The Little Portion chapel from which Francis prayed and sent out the first friars on mission).

          There Francis, forgave all who asked for his forgiveness and blessed all absent brothers “Praise to You, my Lord, through our sister bodily death, from whom no living person can escape. Woe to those who die in mortal sin. Blessed are those whom death will find in Your holy will, for the second death shall do them no harm.

          Courageously, Francis asked his doctor to announce Sister Death’s arrival so that he might welcome her with joy, because he was going to lead him to the gates of eternal life. While our world seems incapable of coming to terms with death, the Church has a message that she alone can provide: eternal life.

          Men, like Francis have for centuries been able to look beyond death to their final destination, life. In 1400, the plague appeared  again in Italy. Saint Bernadine of Siena began serving at the Hospital Della Scala at a time whien it was considered imprudent for young people to serve because they were more susceptible to infection. Bernadine and a band of brave brothers went into the wards after receiving Holy Communion and quietly took their place besides the sick, day and night without intermission. In the Della Scala, 1800 people died. When it was over, Bernadine lay sick for four months. After recovering, he went on to courageously fight a moral plague of bitter and bloody class battles struggles and family rivalries with the devotion to the Holy Name of Jesus.

          Bishop Peter Byrne recently reminded the friars that Archbishop Saint Charles Borromeo served in Milan during the plague of 1576. While people were terrified, the Archbishop offered himself as a victim in expiation for the sins of the people and went to the hospitals even though the gates were barred. There he found faces pressed against the iron bars if windows crying out for food and drink Seeing a priest, they would cry out, “Father, at least give us your blessings!” St. Charles Borromeo made an impassioned appeal to the Milanese priests who let fear keep them from their duties to the plague victims: “ we have only one life and we should spend it for Jesus Christ and souls, not as we wish, but as the time in the way God wishes. This does not mean you should neglect human means, such as preventatives, remedies, doctors, everything you can use to keep off infection, for such means are in no way opposed to doing our duty.”

          Does the Church still have a prophetic and courageous place in the final pandemic of the 21st century? Unlike past centuries, our era knows cures for many illnesses, injuries and infirmities. And still, our bodies will perish. Francis’ faith embraced death as one so near to him as to be called “sister”. Some may think this is inhuman, that the fear of death is natural, but the Church help us to be more human, not less, because she has received from God the words of Eternal Life. “The Church”, Cardinal Sarah, recently has written, “… must stop being afraid of causing shock and of going against the tide. She must give up thinking of herself as a worldly institution. She must return to her only raison d’etre: Faith. The Church is there to announce that Jesus has conquered death through His resurrection. This is at the heart of her message: “And if Christ has not been raised, them empty too is our preaching; empty too, your faith… and we are the most wretched of all men ( 1 Cor 1:5: 14-19)…. The crisis reveals that our societies, without knowing it, are suffering deeply from spiritual evil: they do not know how to give meaning to suffering, finitude and death.”

          In facing our mortality, there is not merely human response that can suffice to calm our fear. Only the hope of eternal life can overcome the fear of death. But who is the man who will dare to preach hope?

          Father Louis does. And with Father Louis stands the crowd of faithful witnessed that give us a modern example of courage to meet Sister Death when she comes.

          Here is a little prescription, take a minute or two before moving one to express a hearty thank you Jesus for your faith. – Father John Paul Oullette, CFR

          May Father John Paul’s words bring inspiration and perspective these summer days,

God Bless

Fr. Tom Devery

Pastor Letter July 26

Dear Parish Family,

Last Sunday I was delighted to witness the wedding vows of a couple who remembered me from Holy Child. The bride said,” I left a quote that you wrote in the parish bulletin when I was a child, during the summer”. I opened her note; and this is what I found. “Happiness keeps you sweet…. Trials keep you strong … and Sorrows keep you human…. Failures keep you humble… Success keeps you glowing… but only God keeps you going!” What a wonderful a timeless piece of wisdom, especially for newly-weds.

I have been admiring excerpts written by Archbishop Fulton Sheen, because he was a faith filled preacher. As Monsignor Vincent Bartley would say, “He had words at will”. Here is another example of timeless wisdom.

Some years ago, a girl wrote to me telling that at the age of eighteen she went to her first dance, in company with her cousin. After the dance, her cousin dropped her at the gate.  Her house was some distance from the gate, and in the distance between the gate and the front porch, she was attacked by a stranger. In due time, she found herself with a child. The only ones who would believer her were her mother and her pastor. Neighbor women said, “Oh, isn’t it terrible, the poor woman had one bad daughter.”  Some girls in the choir would not allow her to sing because she was wicked. She told me of all of this torture that she endured, and she said, “What’s the answer?”

          I wrote back to her and I said, “My dear girl, all of this suffering has come upon you because you bore the sin of one man. If you bore the sin of ten men, you would probably suffer ten times more. And if you ever took upon yourself the sins of a hundred men, the suffering would be a hundred times worse. And if you ever took upon yourself the sins of all the world, you might have had a bloody sweat.” That’s where you sin was, and mine: in that bloody sweat on Calvary: in this human nature that so loved us that we call the Sacred Heart.

          Our Lord was not just a teacher, but a redeemer.  He was coming to redeem man in the likeness of human flesh. Teachers change men by their lives. Our Blessed Lord would change men by his death. That poison of hate and sensuality and envy which is in the hearts of men could not be healed simply by mild exhortations of social reform.  The wage of sin is death, and therefore it is by death that sin would be atoned for.  As in ancient sacrifices where the fire symbolically burned up the imputed sin along with the victim, so on the cross the world’s sin would be put away in Christ’s suffering. Fir he would be upright as a priest and prostrate as a victim.  If there is anything a good teacher wants it is a long life which will make his teachings known. Death is always a great tragedy to a teacher.  The Socrates was given the hemlock juice, his message was cut off once and for all. Death was a stumbling block to Buddha and stood in the way of all the teachings of his eastern mystics. But Our Lord was always proclaiming his death, in which he took upon himself the sins of the world so he would appear as a sinner.

These words need to be reread to take in the deep level of this great man’s prayer and faith. May the Lord help you this summer to keep your focus on Christ.

God bless you all,

Father Tom Devery

Pastor Letter July 19

Dear Parish Family,

Saint Clare of Assisi had a unique view of living the Gospel, and it’s captured well in this reflection

Despite many differing views of Jesus’ life and teaching, we can say confidently that Jesus was a poor man who fully embraced life with those on the margins of society. Francis of Assisi certainly did the same, and it became his litmus test for all orthodoxy and ongoing transformation into God. Clare of Assisi (1194–1253) wanted to imitate Francis in this and I acknowledge that she and her sisters, the Poor Clares, have kept the vow of poverty much better than we Franciscan friars have done. Today, Bridget Mary Meehan helps us understand how radical simplicity helped Clare and her sisters come to a singleness of focus and heart.

Clare understood that love and poverty [or what I would call simplicity] are connected. She taught that poverty frees one from the bondage of material things and from all the things that clutter the human heart and soul. . . . .

Gospel poverty was at the heart of Clare’s rule. The Poor Ladies owned nothing; they lived simply without property, endowments, or any kind of material possessions. For Clare, doing without things led to deep communion with God. Her way of life was characterized by a deep trust in God to provide for the needs of the community. Whatever the Poor Ladies received was sufficient. Openness and receptivity reflected Clare’s attitudes toward people and things. For her, everything was gift. She and her “ladies” lived the gospel passionately according to the Franciscan ideal.

Through the centuries Clare has continued to be a beacon of light to women and men who long to love Christ with an undivided heart, to serve others generously, and to live simply in a world that glorifies material possessions. If we have too many clothes in our closets, too much money in the bank, too many things cluttering our lives, Clare can help us find the one thing necessary—God who will liberate and fill our emptiness with divine love. Our conversion process may take time—sometimes years—but we will experience freedom and joy when we live with a loose grasp on material things, when we are willing to share our possessions as well as our time and energy with those in need. . . .

How often do we take a deep breath and appreciate—really appreciate—the air we breathe? How often do we savor the food we taste and smell the flowers along our path? When was the last time we listened to our child, laughed with a friend, embraced our spouse? It is true that the best things in life are free, but we are often too distracted or too busy to see the simple treasures of life right in front of us.

May the Franciscan love of simplicity be yours.

Blessings and Peace,

Fr. Tom Devery


Pastor Letter for June 21

Dear Parish Family,

Happy Father’s Day to our dads and granddads! What a gift you are! Not only to your family but to our parish family; your presence at Mass, your witness to your faith and loving your wife and children is so much needed in our world today. Many fathers have told me that this quarantine time has given insight to many things that we take for granted. Primarily, you have been present to your family at home than anytime before. Our identity as fathers has been provider, bread winner and protector and many describe ourselves by what we do rather than who we are. There has been a spiritual awakening taking place. God is with us in this terrible time and He will lead and guide us if we let him. So, let me honor you for your faithfulness and dedication to God and your families. Happy Father’s Day.

Cardinal Dolan writes about his dad in his book “Who do you say that I am”.

“I thank God for the gift of my dad, for he was a loving, responsible and caring man. His faith and his family were his focus, his passion, and the center of his life.

I am convinced that the restoration of fatherhood as a esteemed vocation in the Church and in society is the key to renewal and the antidote for many of our cultural ills. By their word and their example, dads teach us many important lessons.

When a man fully embraces what it means to be a dad – to be a father – he is a position to teach us fidelity. Simply put, a dad is man of his word.  He is true to the vows he made to the Lord and to his wife. He keeps the promises he made to his children on the day of their baptisms, when he agreed to teach them “by word and example”.

True dads are selfless and willing to make sacrifices, including the most seemingly insignificant ones. My dad loved ketchup. No meal was complete without it. Yet when the bottle was nearly empty, he would never touch it. The little bit remaining was for us.

Dads gift their children with time. I remember standing in the front yard, baseball glove in hand, waiting for Dad to come home from work.  Through he was hot, sweaty and tired he always had time to play a little catch.

Finally, dads teach their kids about God’s true nature. What a supreme compliment to every dad: God revealed Himself as a father!

What children think of their dads profoundly influences the way they think about God. If they see their dads as loving, selfless, faithful, and forgiving, this will translate directly to our Heavenly Father.”

I often find inspiration from “Jesus Calling” by Sarah Young. Her reflection for June 15 (Monday past) helped me appreciate where I draw the strength for my fatherhood as a priest. She writes as if Jesus is speaking to us in the first person.

“When you approach Me in stillness and in trust, you are strengthened. You need a buffer zone of silence, around you in order to focus on things that are unseen. Since I am invisible, you must not let your senses dominate your thinking. The curse of this age is overstimulation of the senses, which blocks out awareness of the unseen world.

The tangible world still reflects My Glory to those who have eyes to that see and ears that hear. Spending time along with Me is the best way to develop seeing eyes and hearing ears. The goal is to be aware of unseen things even as you live out your life in the visible world.   (2 Corinthians 4:18; Isaiah 6:3; Psalm 130:5).

I can’t wait to see you all return to church. I miss you and pray for you all daily. May God bless you!

Fr. Tom Devery


Pastor Letter for June 14

Dear Parish Family,

This Sunday is the Feast of Corpus Christi, The Body and Blood of Christ. I will be offering the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass, live stream at 11AM. May I invite you to come by the car-full to our parking lot for a blessing with the Blessed Sacrament. At 3-4PM I will be people in their cars. This would be a wonderful way to demonstrate our faith. Jesus is truly present in His word, in His people, and most sublimely in The Blessed Sacrament. Unfortunately, there are Catholics who don’t believe in the Real Presence of Jesus. This is the heresy of our times. If only we could let go and let God give us this faith to surrender ourselves to this truth, how powerful Christ’s presence could change our lives for the better.

For lifelong Catholics, it has been a spiritual suffering to go these past 100 days without receiving physically Jesus into our lives. We understand that the new normal will challenging until the statics and metrics point to our total return to Church Life. Let us not waste this suffering but unite it to Jesus’ sacrifice on the Cross for the healing and evangelizing of the whole world. It’s been said before, Know Jesus, Know Peace, and No Jesus, No Peace. May the Body and Blood, Soul and Divinity reinforce our faith in the fact that God promised to never abandon us and that He is with us until the end of time.

We are on the brink of returning to 25% capacity for Sunday Mass and simultaneously offering a Parking Lot Mass in the gym parking lot. We are meeting this week as a staff to discuss, times and how we can do the logistics of this so as be with the health guidelines of this pandemic and maintain safety and security. It must be made clear, until we are fully opened for our regularly schedule of Mass, the obligation to attend Mass is suspended and we are praying the prayer for all at home for Spiritual Communion. This is a sacrifice and I anguish over this since social distancing is a unique suffering that none of ever experienced before. However there is new data from the CDC regarding the nature of this pandemic. For example, it has been determined the importance of wearing masks, not just in stores, or shops but in public, since the tiny droplets can linger for up to 3 hours and that it doesn’t last as long on surfaces. These findings are alarming and yet consequential, if we don’t be mindful that we can trigger another wave of sickness, suffering and possible death.

Surrender Prayer

God, my Father, I thank you for all that you are and all that you do for me through your Son, Jesus Christ. I praise you for my life, for your mercy and your presence in the Eucharist.

In Jesus name, Father, I place myself entirely into your Heart. I surrender to you my whole self, my heart, my mind, my memory, my imagination, my will, my emotions, my passions, my desires, my body, my sexuality, my desire for human approval, my weaknesses, my sins. I surrender every situation in my life to you. I surrender every relationship I am into you. I surrender every concern I have to you. I surrender every fear I have to you. I surrender every doubt I have to you. I surrender all my wounds to you. I surrender all my anxiety and worry that I have to you. I surrender all that deceives me in my heart to you. I trust you to care for me and others in a perfectly loving way.

As I have emptied myself; and surrendered everything to you. I ask you now, Father, to fill me with your Holy Spirit and all the gifts and fruits of the Holy Spirit. Holy Spirit, you are the source of love, hope, joy, peace, patience, goodness, gentleness, tenderness, faithfulness, humility, and self-control. Purify my desires.  Help me to open my heart to you. Help me to become perfectly receptive as a pure child. Help me to believe in your love for me. Help me to hope in your love. Help me to receive from the Most Sacred Heart of Jesus all graces and virtues necessary for me to become the person you created me to be. God Almighty Father, I ask this in the Name of Jesus your son.

O Most Holy Immaculate Virgin Mary, I entrust this prayer to your heart and ask you to press it into your sorrowful and immaculate heart and intercede for me to your Son, Jesus. Please help me to be as you are, a loving disciple, an obedient servant, a true child of God. AMEN.

I congratulate the Our Lady Star of the Sea School Class of 2020 who attended their outdoor graduation. Certainly, this class will go down in history as having to deal with the pandemic and troubled times for our economy and justice. However, you have been given the gifts to proceed into the future. We are saying well done and blessings be upon you and all the sacrifices your families made to give you a Catholic Education in our parish school. Now walk with God and we will take delight as we watch your growth. Be not afraid.

With Trust in God’s Love for you this Corpus Christi,

Father Tom Devery


Pastor Letter for May 31

Dear Parish Family,

Just as we remembered last Monday on Memorial Day, those men and women of the military that paid the ultimate price for our freedom from the past, and as we honor these days the men and women battling Covid-19 all first responders and medical personnel and all essential workers who risk their lives to save others, so we offer the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass praying for the Holy Spirit to come and end this pandemic and help us to discover new vaccines, and recover from fear and loss, and stress of these days. I recently was impressed by an article that seemed very timely about our situation now and how we can take care of our Planet. Pope Francis dedicated his encyclical “Laudato, Si”, to the spirit of Saint Francis of Assisi and his love for ecology. Enjoy!

Loving God by Loving the World

I have often wondered what might compel more Christians to take personal responsibility to mitigate climate change. With all the scientific evidence we’ve been given, it doesn’t seem to be a head issue but a heart one. Scholar Sallie McFague (1933–2019) offers both theological and ethical reasons for us to make some much needed changes at an individual level. She writes:

As St. Augustine [354–430] puts it, sin is “being curved in upon oneself” [1] rather than being open to God. In our ecological age, we now see that being open to God means being open to the other creatures upon whom we depend and who depend upon us. We do not meet God only in Jesus of Nazareth, because God is also incarnate in our world as the universal Christ. . . .

To love God by loving God’s world has meant different things to different people in different times. For us . . . it is epitomized by climate change . . . the central crisis of the twenty-first century. Put simply, climate change is the result of too many human beings using too much energy and taking up too much space on the planet. Through excessive energy use and its accompanying greenhouse-gas emissions, we are changing the planet’s climate in ways that will make it uninhabitable for ourselves and many other species. . . .

This is a strange “crisis” to face: It does not have the immediacy of a war or plague or tsunami. Rather, it has to do with how we live on a daily basis—the food we eat, the transportation we use . . . the luxuries . . . [and] long-distance air travel we permit ourselves. We are not being called to . . . fight an enemy; rather, the enemy is the very ordinary life we ourselves are leading. . . . Yet, for all its presumed innocence, this way of life lived by well-off North Americans [and prosperous people in other countries —RR] is both unjust to those who cannot attain this lifestyle and destructive of the very planet that supports us all.

What, then, would be [an appropriate] ethic for twenty-first-century people and especially for well-off, religious people? One of the distinguishing characteristics of many . . . religions is some form of self-emptying. Often it takes the form of ego-lessness, the attempt to open the self so that God can enter. . . . In the Christian tradition, kenosis or self-emptying is seen as constitutive of God’s being in creation, the incarnation, and the cross. In creation, God limits the divine self, pulling in, so to speak, to allow space for others to exist. . . . In the incarnation, as Paul writes in Philippians 2:7, God “emptied the divine self, taking the form of a slave,” and in the cross God gives of the divine self without limit. Likewise, one understanding of Christian discipleship is [as] a “cruciform” life, imitating the self-giving of Christ for others. . . .

Could we live and move and have our being in the universal Christ, participating in the insight and power of God incarnate in the world as we deal with . . .  the basics of existence—space and energy—so we can live in radical interdependence with all other creatures? We are not alone as we face this challenge—the universal Christ is in, with, and for the world as we struggle to deal with climate change.”

I try to do my part. I ordered on Amazon a hand grabber, heavy duty and as I pray my rosary, I walk the perimeter of our 15- acre parish campus. There is no shortage of empty bottles, gloves, masks, candy wrappers, cigarette packs, wipes, cups, napkins and e-cigarette containers. Actually I have filled on these walks 9 garbage bags. It’s a practice of mercy for the land that resists this garbage and one of internal self -emptying in forgiveness. “Father, Forgive them, they know not what they do.” I pray for a New Pentecost and that day we resist the throw-away culture and love more our common ground.

Pentecost Blessings,

Fr. Tom Devery