18th Sunday of Ordinary Time Shared Homily

Pastor Letter July 26

Dear Parish Family,

Last Sunday I was delighted to witness the wedding vows of a couple who remembered me from Holy Child. The bride said,” I left a quote that you wrote in the parish bulletin when I was a child, during the summer”. I opened her note; and this is what I found. “Happiness keeps you sweet…. Trials keep you strong … and Sorrows keep you human…. Failures keep you humble… Success keeps you glowing… but only God keeps you going!” What a wonderful a timeless piece of wisdom, especially for newly-weds.

I have been admiring excerpts written by Archbishop Fulton Sheen, because he was a faith filled preacher. As Monsignor Vincent Bartley would say, “He had words at will”. Here is another example of timeless wisdom.

Some years ago, a girl wrote to me telling that at the age of eighteen she went to her first dance, in company with her cousin. After the dance, her cousin dropped her at the gate.  Her house was some distance from the gate, and in the distance between the gate and the front porch, she was attacked by a stranger. In due time, she found herself with a child. The only ones who would believer her were her mother and her pastor. Neighbor women said, “Oh, isn’t it terrible, the poor woman had one bad daughter.”  Some girls in the choir would not allow her to sing because she was wicked. She told me of all of this torture that she endured, and she said, “What’s the answer?”

          I wrote back to her and I said, “My dear girl, all of this suffering has come upon you because you bore the sin of one man. If you bore the sin of ten men, you would probably suffer ten times more. And if you ever took upon yourself the sins of a hundred men, the suffering would be a hundred times worse. And if you ever took upon yourself the sins of all the world, you might have had a bloody sweat.” That’s where you sin was, and mine: in that bloody sweat on Calvary: in this human nature that so loved us that we call the Sacred Heart.

          Our Lord was not just a teacher, but a redeemer.  He was coming to redeem man in the likeness of human flesh. Teachers change men by their lives. Our Blessed Lord would change men by his death. That poison of hate and sensuality and envy which is in the hearts of men could not be healed simply by mild exhortations of social reform.  The wage of sin is death, and therefore it is by death that sin would be atoned for.  As in ancient sacrifices where the fire symbolically burned up the imputed sin along with the victim, so on the cross the world’s sin would be put away in Christ’s suffering. Fir he would be upright as a priest and prostrate as a victim.  If there is anything a good teacher wants it is a long life which will make his teachings known. Death is always a great tragedy to a teacher.  The Socrates was given the hemlock juice, his message was cut off once and for all. Death was a stumbling block to Buddha and stood in the way of all the teachings of his eastern mystics. But Our Lord was always proclaiming his death, in which he took upon himself the sins of the world so he would appear as a sinner.

These words need to be reread to take in the deep level of this great man’s prayer and faith. May the Lord help you this summer to keep your focus on Christ.

God bless you all,

Father Tom Devery

17th Sunday of Ordinary Time Shared Homily

Weekly Reflection

Pastor Letter July 19

Dear Parish Family,

Saint Clare of Assisi had a unique view of living the Gospel, and it’s captured well in this reflection

Despite many differing views of Jesus’ life and teaching, we can say confidently that Jesus was a poor man who fully embraced life with those on the margins of society. Francis of Assisi certainly did the same, and it became his litmus test for all orthodoxy and ongoing transformation into God. Clare of Assisi (1194–1253) wanted to imitate Francis in this and I acknowledge that she and her sisters, the Poor Clares, have kept the vow of poverty much better than we Franciscan friars have done. Today, Bridget Mary Meehan helps us understand how radical simplicity helped Clare and her sisters come to a singleness of focus and heart.

Clare understood that love and poverty [or what I would call simplicity] are connected. She taught that poverty frees one from the bondage of material things and from all the things that clutter the human heart and soul. . . . .

Gospel poverty was at the heart of Clare’s rule. The Poor Ladies owned nothing; they lived simply without property, endowments, or any kind of material possessions. For Clare, doing without things led to deep communion with God. Her way of life was characterized by a deep trust in God to provide for the needs of the community. Whatever the Poor Ladies received was sufficient. Openness and receptivity reflected Clare’s attitudes toward people and things. For her, everything was gift. She and her “ladies” lived the gospel passionately according to the Franciscan ideal.

Through the centuries Clare has continued to be a beacon of light to women and men who long to love Christ with an undivided heart, to serve others generously, and to live simply in a world that glorifies material possessions. If we have too many clothes in our closets, too much money in the bank, too many things cluttering our lives, Clare can help us find the one thing necessary—God who will liberate and fill our emptiness with divine love. Our conversion process may take time—sometimes years—but we will experience freedom and joy when we live with a loose grasp on material things, when we are willing to share our possessions as well as our time and energy with those in need. . . .

How often do we take a deep breath and appreciate—really appreciate—the air we breathe? How often do we savor the food we taste and smell the flowers along our path? When was the last time we listened to our child, laughed with a friend, embraced our spouse? It is true that the best things in life are free, but we are often too distracted or too busy to see the simple treasures of life right in front of us.

May the Franciscan love of simplicity be yours.

Blessings and Peace,

Fr. Tom Devery

 

13th Sunday of Ordinary Time Shared Homily

Pastor Letter for June 21

Dear Parish Family,

Happy Father’s Day to our dads and granddads! What a gift you are! Not only to your family but to our parish family; your presence at Mass, your witness to your faith and loving your wife and children is so much needed in our world today. Many fathers have told me that this quarantine time has given insight to many things that we take for granted. Primarily, you have been present to your family at home than anytime before. Our identity as fathers has been provider, bread winner and protector and many describe ourselves by what we do rather than who we are. There has been a spiritual awakening taking place. God is with us in this terrible time and He will lead and guide us if we let him. So, let me honor you for your faithfulness and dedication to God and your families. Happy Father’s Day.

Cardinal Dolan writes about his dad in his book “Who do you say that I am”.

“I thank God for the gift of my dad, for he was a loving, responsible and caring man. His faith and his family were his focus, his passion, and the center of his life.

I am convinced that the restoration of fatherhood as a esteemed vocation in the Church and in society is the key to renewal and the antidote for many of our cultural ills. By their word and their example, dads teach us many important lessons.

When a man fully embraces what it means to be a dad – to be a father – he is a position to teach us fidelity. Simply put, a dad is man of his word.  He is true to the vows he made to the Lord and to his wife. He keeps the promises he made to his children on the day of their baptisms, when he agreed to teach them “by word and example”.

True dads are selfless and willing to make sacrifices, including the most seemingly insignificant ones. My dad loved ketchup. No meal was complete without it. Yet when the bottle was nearly empty, he would never touch it. The little bit remaining was for us.

Dads gift their children with time. I remember standing in the front yard, baseball glove in hand, waiting for Dad to come home from work.  Through he was hot, sweaty and tired he always had time to play a little catch.

Finally, dads teach their kids about God’s true nature. What a supreme compliment to every dad: God revealed Himself as a father!

What children think of their dads profoundly influences the way they think about God. If they see their dads as loving, selfless, faithful, and forgiving, this will translate directly to our Heavenly Father.”

I often find inspiration from “Jesus Calling” by Sarah Young. Her reflection for June 15 (Monday past) helped me appreciate where I draw the strength for my fatherhood as a priest. She writes as if Jesus is speaking to us in the first person.

“When you approach Me in stillness and in trust, you are strengthened. You need a buffer zone of silence, around you in order to focus on things that are unseen. Since I am invisible, you must not let your senses dominate your thinking. The curse of this age is overstimulation of the senses, which blocks out awareness of the unseen world.

The tangible world still reflects My Glory to those who have eyes to that see and ears that hear. Spending time along with Me is the best way to develop seeing eyes and hearing ears. The goal is to be aware of unseen things even as you live out your life in the visible world.   (2 Corinthians 4:18; Isaiah 6:3; Psalm 130:5).

I can’t wait to see you all return to church. I miss you and pray for you all daily. May God bless you!

Fr. Tom Devery

 

Corpus Christi Sunday Shared Homily

Pastor Letter for June 14

Dear Parish Family,

This Sunday is the Feast of Corpus Christi, The Body and Blood of Christ. I will be offering the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass, live stream at 11AM. May I invite you to come by the car-full to our parking lot for a blessing with the Blessed Sacrament. At 3-4PM I will be people in their cars. This would be a wonderful way to demonstrate our faith. Jesus is truly present in His word, in His people, and most sublimely in The Blessed Sacrament. Unfortunately, there are Catholics who don’t believe in the Real Presence of Jesus. This is the heresy of our times. If only we could let go and let God give us this faith to surrender ourselves to this truth, how powerful Christ’s presence could change our lives for the better.

For lifelong Catholics, it has been a spiritual suffering to go these past 100 days without receiving physically Jesus into our lives. We understand that the new normal will challenging until the statics and metrics point to our total return to Church Life. Let us not waste this suffering but unite it to Jesus’ sacrifice on the Cross for the healing and evangelizing of the whole world. It’s been said before, Know Jesus, Know Peace, and No Jesus, No Peace. May the Body and Blood, Soul and Divinity reinforce our faith in the fact that God promised to never abandon us and that He is with us until the end of time.

We are on the brink of returning to 25% capacity for Sunday Mass and simultaneously offering a Parking Lot Mass in the gym parking lot. We are meeting this week as a staff to discuss, times and how we can do the logistics of this so as be with the health guidelines of this pandemic and maintain safety and security. It must be made clear, until we are fully opened for our regularly schedule of Mass, the obligation to attend Mass is suspended and we are praying the prayer for all at home for Spiritual Communion. This is a sacrifice and I anguish over this since social distancing is a unique suffering that none of ever experienced before. However there is new data from the CDC regarding the nature of this pandemic. For example, it has been determined the importance of wearing masks, not just in stores, or shops but in public, since the tiny droplets can linger for up to 3 hours and that it doesn’t last as long on surfaces. These findings are alarming and yet consequential, if we don’t be mindful that we can trigger another wave of sickness, suffering and possible death.

Surrender Prayer

God, my Father, I thank you for all that you are and all that you do for me through your Son, Jesus Christ. I praise you for my life, for your mercy and your presence in the Eucharist.

In Jesus name, Father, I place myself entirely into your Heart. I surrender to you my whole self, my heart, my mind, my memory, my imagination, my will, my emotions, my passions, my desires, my body, my sexuality, my desire for human approval, my weaknesses, my sins. I surrender every situation in my life to you. I surrender every relationship I am into you. I surrender every concern I have to you. I surrender every fear I have to you. I surrender every doubt I have to you. I surrender all my wounds to you. I surrender all my anxiety and worry that I have to you. I surrender all that deceives me in my heart to you. I trust you to care for me and others in a perfectly loving way.

As I have emptied myself; and surrendered everything to you. I ask you now, Father, to fill me with your Holy Spirit and all the gifts and fruits of the Holy Spirit. Holy Spirit, you are the source of love, hope, joy, peace, patience, goodness, gentleness, tenderness, faithfulness, humility, and self-control. Purify my desires.  Help me to open my heart to you. Help me to become perfectly receptive as a pure child. Help me to believe in your love for me. Help me to hope in your love. Help me to receive from the Most Sacred Heart of Jesus all graces and virtues necessary for me to become the person you created me to be. God Almighty Father, I ask this in the Name of Jesus your son.

O Most Holy Immaculate Virgin Mary, I entrust this prayer to your heart and ask you to press it into your sorrowful and immaculate heart and intercede for me to your Son, Jesus. Please help me to be as you are, a loving disciple, an obedient servant, a true child of God. AMEN.

I congratulate the Our Lady Star of the Sea School Class of 2020 who attended their outdoor graduation. Certainly, this class will go down in history as having to deal with the pandemic and troubled times for our economy and justice. However, you have been given the gifts to proceed into the future. We are saying well done and blessings be upon you and all the sacrifices your families made to give you a Catholic Education in our parish school. Now walk with God and we will take delight as we watch your growth. Be not afraid.

With Trust in God’s Love for you this Corpus Christi,

Father Tom Devery

 

Trinity Sunday Shared Homily